17 4 / 2014

Dear Ex 1-8,

You gave me life lessons that every young woman should learn, so I have to thank you. You taught me that I shouldn’t take people’s crap if their going to make fun of what we have. That, if I want a healthy life, I have to cut out unhealthy people and those who cannot accept me for my quirks or faults because something terrible happened before I met you. That we should accept the differences between people and green mint chocolate chip ice cream will always be my favorite desserts for when I feel my worst. That people will lie through their teeth through years of intimacy, smile and pretend that it never happened. I learned that I want what’s best for me too even if sometimes it doesn’t make another person happy.

I learned I have a desire to be physically close and not close at the same time. That I shouldn’t need material items as proof of a relationship is good between us.

Or that knowing you was the best thing for me and it woke me up to what I really want. Yes I’m angry, you broke a piece of me that was fragile but you can always build a new one to fill the hole that you left behind.

So I can only hate some of you, and I can only wish that things hadn’t been cut off so soon between others. Yet, you gave me standards of what I need in my life and what I don’t and gave me the walls I needed to move on.

Hugs, kisses and punches.

17 4 / 2014

Writing letters with the topics of:

Dear ex,
Dear girl I hate,
Dear boy I like,
Dear ex best friend,
Dear best friend,
Dear Mum and Dad, 
Dear Future Self

17 4 / 2014

disney-princess-unite:

thesegirlsareperfectprincesses:

- Transparent Princesses match your blog background! -

if you find that they look cool on your blog you should send me screencaps so I can see too 

-Rapunzel

(via twofacedpsycho)

17 4 / 2014

cor1n:

A+ relationship: Playing video games together, rough sex, pizza and awful humor that only you two can laugh at. 

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15 4 / 2014

A woman making the same amount as a man or more is only violating the conservative idea that women don’t have to conform to gender roles financially, in their job or in marriage. Nor should a woman feel like they have to make less to make themselves more appealing for marriage.

Financial responsibility, success and equal pay for equal if not harder work is sexy dammit.

Never let anyone make you feel like your sex (and yes maybe even gender), doesn’t make you equal to the same respect and that you have to make yourself feel lesser or be subpar.

Freaking facebook and ‘trending’ ticker…

If I’m going to lift boxes and hurl goats, I better be getting paid the same rate as the dude next to me is making…

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15 4 / 2014

typette:

canyoncrows:

parrot murders man for playing a song he doesn’t like, and then laughs

AAAAAAAAAHAHAHA THE FUCKING MUSIC IN THE BACKGROUND KEEPS GOING OH MY GOD LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED

(via twofacedpsycho)

13 4 / 2014

I had a great time at Sakura Matsuri but I have quickly learned a few things about how much I can handle cities:
1) The sun is not your friend nor are crowded streets. The heat from hot sweaty human bodies and concrete is just asking for a roasting.
2) The D.C. Police do not like it when you wade around in the Mirror Pool.
3) It’s sort of hard to find a comfortable spot on the ground under the trees without a blanket. I’m definitely going to take one next time.
4) Swear sun lotion. All the time. I’ve got a the flaming ring of death around my neck and I wear a lot of low cut dresses even with a camisole…that and my freckles get so dark. D:

I had a great time at Sakura Matsuri but I have quickly learned a few things about how much I can handle cities:

1) The sun is not your friend nor are crowded streets. The heat from hot sweaty human bodies and concrete is just asking for a roasting.

2) The D.C. Police do not like it when you wade around in the Mirror Pool.

3) It’s sort of hard to find a comfortable spot on the ground under the trees without a blanket. I’m definitely going to take one next time.

4) Swear sun lotion. All the time. I’ve got a the flaming ring of death around my neck and I wear a lot of low cut dresses even with a camisole…that and my freckles get so dark. D:

13 4 / 2014

kittycaesar:

instantperson:

kittycaesar:

04.12.14
I’m at the DC Sakura Matsuri! If you see me, say hi!

Ahh! I saw you there but I didn’t know it was you. I saw your bonnet and thought “Oh hey, that’s cool with the red hair.” I was sitting maybe 15ft away too!

Ahhhh! You know, I think I saw you as well! (You were sitting under the giant forest of Sakura, right???) But I count remember from where I knew you! D: I feel like such a derp now. You have changed your hair since the last time I saw you. >

I was! The festival was so crazy I went to go hide in the trees. I was wearing a dark blue dress and brown boots somewhere behind you. Yeah, it’s gotten way longer!  The cherry red hair looks fantastic by the way!

13 4 / 2014

kittycaesar:

04.12.14
I’m at the DC Sakura Matsuri! If you see me, say hi!

Ahh! I saw you there but I didn’t know it was you. I saw your bonnet and thought “Oh hey, that’s cool with the red hair.” I was sitting maybe 15ft away too!

13 4 / 2014

"When I say I want to travel I don’t mean I want to stay at resorts and go on tours with tour guides or buy key chains from souvenir shops. I don’t want to be a tourist. When I say I want to travel I mean I want to explore another country and become part of it. I want to discover small coffee shops in Germany and Italy and France. I want to walk on beaches in Australia and browse the book stores of England. I want to hike the Great Wall of China and go cliff diving in Hawaii I want to meet people who are not like me, but people who I can like all the same. I want to take pictures of things and places and people I meet. I want my mind to be in constant awe of life on earth. I want to see things with new eyes. I want to look at a map and be able to remember how I was transformed by the places I’ve been to the things I’ve seen and the people I’ve met. I want to come home and realize that I have not come home whole but have left a piece of my heart in each place I have been. This, I think, is what is at the heart of Adventure and this is why I plan on making my life one."